As I prepare an application to present on dance therapy with elders for the New Jersey Creative Arts Therapy Conference in March 2012, I am reviewing my resources about elderhood. James Hillman's The Force of Character has long struck a vibrant chord in me, and I would like to sing its praises. Unlike our society's infatuation with the superficial, Hillman tackles the substantial. This excerpt below from an interview on the Paula Gordon show provides inspiration for those of us who would challenge the notion of beauty being skin-deep and assert our connection to character:
Today's materialist monoculture is making us sick, according to the world's leading Jungian psychologist. So Dr. James Hillman has stopped treating people. Instead, he treats ideas. Why? Because the ideas underpinning America's refusal to grow up and our addiction to the New are diseases endemic to the United States, he believes.
Dr. Hillman is equally unsparing of today's reigning myth that we can engineer our way into a golden future. We are in a delusional state, he believes, mistakenly content to believe we are separate from and superior to nature. Our current foundational ideas put us at great risk, according to Dr. Hillman, who warns us against what the Greeks called hubris -- a terrible kind of pride which comes before a catastrophic fall.
But Hillman is more than a critic, he is a doctor. First he diagnoses the sick ideas. Then he offers us ways to reduce the pains inflicted by our monoculture, premised as it is on materialist economics, religious fundamentalism and mechanistic science. Challenge the system. Start with your own character. . . . Face life's challenges -- its fears and its beauty -- squarely. Learn from what life puts in your path. Grow up. And grow old. It takes time for character to come into its fullness, Dr. Hillman insists.
Oldness is something we accumulate. Along with sagging skin and cataracts comes also the quality that goes with soul and beauty . . . . Start looking for that quality in people, starting with yourself. Aspire to be an Ancestor instead of fantasizing about eternal youth, Dr. Hillman urges. . . . . Ancestors sit at the edge of the tribe and protect us from evil spirits: injustice, sham, hypocrisy, exploitation, destruction of the planet. Ancestors come in many forms, including individuals and ideas that help the tribe continue for seven generations.
Nail the evil spirits of our age, Dr. Hillman charges us. It is in humility (not hubris) and the force of character (not delusions about engineering the future) that we find lasting life.
I am reminded of the beauty of a gnarled old tree and the scars that develop around the limb long removed. What does this have to do with dance therapy? Dance therapy isn't about "pretty dances". It's about dancing and speaking what is real. The goal of dance therapy is not to get people to dance ~ it is to use the medium of dance and movement as source for healing. Looking back at my notes of one dance therapy session with elders, some of the themes that arose from our moving together expressively: a woman with lifelong physical and cognitive challenges cried on remembering an uncle who used to carry her to school. They were tears of sadness and joy. Another woman, a Holocaust survivor, found herself not wanting to talk about something bothering her. She acknowledged, "I didn't tell my children, tried to protect them. I found out that my daughter knew when I was worried, even though I tried to not let her know. I lost a son." Lest you think that experiencing the sadness and pain were depressing, at the end of group, she smiled and said "You're wonderful. You made me feel better." She acknowledged that she felt better because she was accepted for what she was feeling, and not pretending.
This photo is from another dance therapy group with elders.
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