Nancy Jo Cardillo, dance movement therapy (DMT) friend and colleague, was leading a large dance therapy group with adults with developmental disabilities at Arc today. One woman, new to the facility and the program, was blind, multihandicapped and developmentally delayed. Apparently, she was expressing her extreme stress at this transition by having 4 temper tantrums before group. Seeing the woman's distress, DMT intern Emily Stebbins was quick on her feet as she reached for an Octaband, inviting those who wanted to use it, standing or sitting, to hold a leg. Another staff person slipped the loops on this woman's wrist. As she grabbed hold of the Octaband, the new woman felt the fabric and the tension, and instantaneously began to de-escalate. Nancy Jo asked the woman her choice of musicm quick or slow. The woman answered "slow". Nancy Jo encouraged participants to move slowly in and back out again and the woman joined in. "It was like magic". Whatever the woman was doing spontaneously, Nancy Jo and Emily suggested that others also do. Leading by following is something that dance therapists often do.

Nancy Jo at a Feeding Ourselves Anniversary Celebration
From the moment that she touched the Octaband, the new woman left her temper tantrum behind. Why? Nancy Jo's understanding was that the Octaband helped the woman organize herself. The space may have been too large for her. It helped her sense her body, gave her a sense of her weight and volume, and something that she had control over. My understanding is that it also gave her a sense of belonging. She now felt her connection to these strangers, all of whom were new to her.
In addition to helping the new woman organize herself, the Octaband helped the entire group organize. There was the circle of those in the middle using the Octaband, but also the entire rest of the circle, consumers, program staff and administrators looking on were all focused on that center circle. And, as Nancy Jo said, everyone was grateful to the Octaband for helping this woman find her center again. She remained in control for the rest of the day.
As I hear these stories and see the magic occur repeatedly, I can't help but consider the very archetypal image of the Octaband. For me, it is an octopus, but it is also the sun. It also looks very much like a neuron. And I think, in some way, the Octaband is a visual representation of the Self. Each of us is an Octaband, with a (hopefully) strong center, and the legs (or arms) that reach out into the environment ~ each of us giving and receiving ~ CONNECTING to one another. Like neurons. Individuals and yet members of a group. If only we would all see ourselves that way.
Nancy Jo Cardillo will be presenting at the Expressive Therapies Summit in NY this Saturday, Nov. 12, 2:30 - 3:50 pm, Jumpstarting Symbolic Play in Dance Therapy Groups for Children.
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